THE FOUR STEPS BEFORE YOU MAKE YOUR CHOICE

If your partner is deceitful and you are not sure if they should leave,
Here are some important facts that you must first perceive.
There are four steps required before you can acquire a level-headed result,
Until you adhere to them your evaluation capabilities may be reduce or even come to a halt.

Lose the ANGER;
The first to address is the anger let me assure you I well know,
If you don’t control it, the confusion will grow.
Until you surpass it the right decision is difficult to make,
The only thing you are likely to achieve is a negative heartache.

Wait and OBSERVE:
When the shock has subsided it’s time to observe,
You will start to perceive things without uttering a word.
Once you’ve accepted all the facts that it brings,
You will see the reality of the situation you’re in.

Face all the FACTS:
At this point you must consider the veracity of the facts,
Including the reason why your partner’s loyalty glided off track.
In some circumstances there may be a greater loss if they go,
But research shows, that these setting often hinder spiritual growth.

Make your DECISION:
You may decide that your relationship is worthy of another try-
But if not be cautious, the Aids virus kills! Are you prepared to die?
No one has the right to dictate your decision it is your life and choice,
Nevertheless remember to rely on God as your guiding hoist.
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If you make a decision to stay with your partner and move forward you must recognize these facts, finger pointing and insults is likely to create or reciprocate the recipients defense barriers, therefore focus on the positives.  The key to progress is simple, think before you act, avoid toxic tolerance and engage in personal examination, perhaps via a doctor or advice center. This will grant you an opportunity to look at your conduct towards your partner, your problem solving techniques if any and the possible impact on the relationship. 

Relationships are an intricate journey to say the least and many couples come to realise that the real test of durability is when you are faced with obstacles. Consequently it is essential to examine methods that drives positive interaction and unity because ultimately our actions bring a reaction.  Both you and your spouse must decide if you have what it takes to survive this difficult time but you must team up to move ahead. Bear in mind if a female refuses to adhere to her responsibility as a woman/spouse or mother and/or if man refuses to recognise or adhere to his responsibility as a man, spouse or father, it will be a real challenge to maintain a productive relationship. However, when both parties in a relationship take time out to recognise their faults and address them effectively they can improve their chances to enhance love, a progressive bond and positive communication.